Marriage Confidential - Paperback

by Pamela Haag (Author)

"In this timely and thought-provoking analysis of modern coupledom, Pamela Haag paints a vivid tableau of the 'semi-happy' couple. Written with wit and aplomb, this page turner will instigate an insurrection against our marital complacency." --Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity

Written with the persuasive power of Naomi Wolf and the analytical skills of Susan Faludi, Pamela Haag's provocative but sympathetic look at the state of marriage today answers--and goes beyond--the question many of us are asking: "Is this all there is?"

Marriage Confidential tackles this question with bracing candor, taking us inside a world where romantic ideas have given way to a "post-romantic" mood and a fair number of marriages end up "semi-happy." It's a world where the husbands of "workhorse wives" pursue the Having It All dream that married women have abandoned; where children have migrated from the children's table to the centerpiece; and where technology, demography, and economy place unprecedented stresses on marital fidelity. Among other examples of marriage trailblazers, Haag even presents a case for how updated ideas of non-monogamy might be an option for the future.

Uniquely weaving together cultural commentary, memoir, storytelling, history, and research, Marriage Confidential gives us a riveting glimpse of what the future of marriage might look like.

This insightful relationships book explores the melancholy marriage and the couples who are rewriting the rules:

• The Semi-Happy Marriage: An unflinching look at low-conflict but melancholy spouses who privately wonder, "Is this as good as it gets?"
• Workhorse Wives: Why the "Having It All" dream fell to a new generation of wives, leaving them to support their husbands' creative pursuits.
• Parenting Marriages: How children have migrated from the children's table to the centerpiece of the family, placing unprecedented stress on the couple.
• The New Monogamy: A provocative exploration of "rebel couples" who are rewriting the rules on fidelity, from "married dating" to ethical nonmonogamy.

Front Jacket

Marriage Confidential tackles this question with bracing candor, taking us inside a world where romantic ideas have given way to a post-romantic mood and a fair number of marriages end up semi-happy. It's a world where the husbands of workhorse wives pursue the Having It All dream that married women have abandoned; where children have migrated from the children's table to the centerpiece; and where technology, demography, and economy place unprecedented stresses on marital fidelity. Among other examples of marriage trailblazers, Haag even presents a case for how updated ideas of non-monogamy might be an option for the future.

Uniquely weaving together cultural commentary, memoir, storytelling, history, and research, Marriage Confidential gives us a riveting glimpse of what the future of marriage might look like.

Back Jacket

Marriage Confidential tackles this question with bracing candor, taking us inside a world where romantic ideas have given way to a "post-romantic" mood and a fair number of marriages end up "semi-happy." It's a world where the husbands of "workhorse wives" pursue the Having It All dream that married women have abandoned; where children have migrated from the children's table to the centerpiece; and where technology, demography, and economy place unprecedented stresses on marital fidelity. Among other examples of marriage trailblazers, Haag even presents a case for how updated ideas of non-monogamy might be an option for the future.

Uniquely weaving together cultural commentary, memoir, storytelling, history, and research, Marriage Confidential gives us a riveting glimpse of what the future of marriage might look like.